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Meditation for Beginners

When our mind is silent, we see things as they really are.  When are mind is clouded by thought, we distort how things are. Anything we do with a distracted mind will lack power. This is why I always recommend my students meditate for short periods of time to start off with. Ten or fifteen minutes.
The aim of meditation in the beginning is to focus our mind and bring our attention to the present moment. Our minds are saturated all day by information and thoughts and busyness so it's unrealistic to believe that we can stop the chatter immediately.
If I'm very anxious or stressed, I don't find sitting useful. I go for a run or do some Kung Fu or Qigong training. Focusing on my breath and movement together, my mind begins to slow down and becomes silent of its own accord.

In our day to day life, we tend to push for things. There's a desire to improve ourselves or see results. But meditation needs to be an unconditional space where we have pure acceptance no matter what thoughts arise.
The founder of Zen, Damo, recommended we do Qigong before our sitting meditation. Shaolin Monks took this further and for many, the movements of Qigong and Kung Fu is their meditation. There is no right or wrong. They are all tools to help us get to that place of stillness. Sitting Qigong is a great way to still the mind. But if you've been sitting all day, what you may need is movement. We're animals. We're born to move.
The important point is not to force. If we're anxious, we don't get lost in the anxiety. We can ask ourselves, what am I anxious about? what can I do about it? And then do it. If there's nothing we can do about it then what is the point of being anxious? It's just a pattern that our mind has fallen into. Of course, I realise, it's not as easy as that. But this is what Shantideva, the great Indian master said. And I think it's good advice.


It's important to give ourselves space. A space away from planning and doing and being. A space away from the roles that we have assigned ourselves. Being a parent, a business person, a worker. We are much more than these people. And we are much more than our anxiety.

Look at yourself and prescribe the correct tool so you can enter tranquillity. It may be different things on different days.  Do I need a challenging kung fu workout? Or some qigong? Or do I need to go outside for a walk or a run? You'll find  it's easier to sit after you've done some physical exercise. Because your mind has already started to let go of the day.

I have a Buddhist statue in my home and I use jade as a reminder for me to stay focused. This inspires me. Use what inspires you. It may be a postcard or a quote. Make sure you have it where you can see it.  

 Keep it simple. Relaxed and alert. Not sleepy! Sleepy is not awake. We don't want to enter mental dullness.  Keep your mind alert and light and spacious. Allow yourself to be.


  • Praveen

    Thank you Shifu Yan Lei for the above note on Meditation. Could you suggest, or do you also teach Meditative practices. I have been doing meditation for a while now, but with audio tapes and external help, and keep changing from one to another. I want to learn a practice that I can do everyday. Please advice. Warm Regards.

  • Marvin Whitfield

    Thank you 😊 for your insight Shi Fu.
    I had been trying to sit for 20yrs it has been so hard.

    Thank you,


    Marvin Whitfield

  • David Guest

    Happy Xmas to your family and yourself hope to see you at the Xmas Shaolin Temple UK exhibition.
    thank you

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